What a Year Brings

sunset on crater

The long,chilly nights of December invite the time to reflect. I always enjoy collecting the letters and emails of friends and family recollecting what the year has brought them. Of course, before social media, this was usually the only way to find out what was going on in others lives. I appreciate those that take the time to connect personally. So  I am-here we are-ending 2016. I am not going to touch on the turmoil felt over the world, politically speaking, though I will reiterate one idea I have heard,  that I feel very lucky to have been born as I am and in this time. Anywhere else at any other time and I (we) would be either suffering more than we can fathom, or we would be dead. Heavy stuff to think about on New Year's Eve, but I think it is appropriate, because it is these thoughts that make me feel gratitude and at peace. So I may be physically alone tonight, just me and my dog, but I have the company and comfort of good friends, a loving family and abundance on so many levels. So, I will not lament the things of the past year that I cannot control, but have gratitude for what has happened and strive to make my life better in 2017 in the hopes that it will ripple out and impact other lives in a meaningful way.

If it were not for the positive and hopeful actions of others, I would not have had the honor of receiving two wonderful gifts this year. One is the van I received last January (see former post) and the other was the amazing opportunity to travel to Maui for 3 weeks. A dear friend funded the opportunity to travel there to train in a specialized Neuro rehab as well as experience the beauty and healing powers of the island. I worked two intensive hours 5 days a week and on my days off I was able to body board once, dip my body in the sea next to a sea turtle, watch a never ending sunset atop a magical crater at 10,000 feet, and face off on anxieties and fears that had been plaguing me for
several years.

surfing in maui

I came back from that trip with a renewed desire to keep striving to be stronger, both physically and mentally, so I can find relief from the pain, fatigue and anxieties that holds me back.

Several infections weakened me considerable this year, and making a comeback requires more physical therapy than I have been able to afford these past few years. I have received such an embarrasement of generosity that I honestly feel guilty and ashamed to seek out more in the way of funding, but I know people will only give if they are able and if they believe I deserve it. Maybe I don't, and I can accept that. Either way, I will always be grateful for the belief in me that has fueled my recovery until now. If you are interested -donations can be made to HelpHopeLive.

Whatever 2017 has in store for me-for us- I will do my best to always seek out the grace in whatever situations I encounter and I invite you to do the same.

Love and blessings for a peaceful New Year.
-Cynthia

Swimming in Maui

New Adventures Await

On January 14th I was given a gift I had dreamed about for the last several years-keys to a ramp van that I will be able to drive. Many of you know the story and were essential in transforming this idea into a reality. NMEDA hosted a celebratory party and many friends and family joined in the celebration. I have had my first driving lesson-and although I feared that I would careen into oncoming traffic, I managed through the 2 hour lesson and felt exhausted but empowered! Before I know it, driving will just be part of my life.

 I will always remember to feel gratitude to all the collective energy that put me behind the wheel. I was utterly blown away with the enthusiasm engendered from friends and family-YOU made this happen! The votes, the money raised to cover the taxes and the donations from NMEDA, Honda, VMI, MobilityWorks and other vendors just shows that there is generosity and good in this world and I will do my best to be deserving of it and spread it around. Thank you all so much for your unwavering encouragement and support!